i recently read a book called the life-changing magic of tidying up
by marie kondo in which the author explains in very easy to follow terms how to, well, tidy
up your surroundings. i was really drawn in to her method, which really
is as simple as asking yourself of every object you own, "does this
spark joy?" if not,
thank it for its presence in your life and let it go.
the author suggests starting with clothes and moving on from there to books, papers, knick knacks, and finally mementos. of course i was most interested in the clothes chapter! as far as clothes go, remove absolutely everything from your closet, touch each item, and ask yourself if sparks joy. if not, all you have to do is say "thank you for for giving me joy when i bought you" or "thank you for teaching me what doesn't suit me" and let it go. a part of me feels so guilty parting with clothes but this simple acknowledgement is what i needed to hear and take to heart to let things go. the author also places a strong emphasis on personalizing the inanimate items you own like clothes--thinking about releasing the pressure of socks folded together, t-shirts stacked on each other weighing one another down, clothes cramped on racks so tightly they can't breathe. it sounds a tad hokey, but it's stuck with me... after reading the book, i felt that if i respect my clothes and treat them properly, i'll continue to derive joy from them and they will remain in good condition for me.
the author suggests starting with clothes and moving on from there to books, papers, knick knacks, and finally mementos. of course i was most interested in the clothes chapter! as far as clothes go, remove absolutely everything from your closet, touch each item, and ask yourself if sparks joy. if not, all you have to do is say "thank you for for giving me joy when i bought you" or "thank you for teaching me what doesn't suit me" and let it go. a part of me feels so guilty parting with clothes but this simple acknowledgement is what i needed to hear and take to heart to let things go. the author also places a strong emphasis on personalizing the inanimate items you own like clothes--thinking about releasing the pressure of socks folded together, t-shirts stacked on each other weighing one another down, clothes cramped on racks so tightly they can't breathe. it sounds a tad hokey, but it's stuck with me... after reading the book, i felt that if i respect my clothes and treat them properly, i'll continue to derive joy from them and they will remain in good condition for me.
i can't wait to tackle the rest of my closet so i feel that same joy about
everything i set
my sights on and then move on to books--yep, i think i am finally going
to get rid of almost all of my books. anyway, i really recommend this
book if you're looking to make
similar changes in your life. it's easy to read and the practices make
so much sense to follow!
monday: j crew factory lace blouse {similar} / j crew factory slim wool
pants {similar} / dexter hensley wedges {similar} / one wink necklace
{similar}
tuesday: thrifted gap button down {similar} / thrifted calvin klein
skirt {similar} / thrifted target stock leather belt {similar} / montego
bay club prima wedges {exact - only $10!}
wednesday: thredupped* j crew ruffle blouse {similar} / old navy floral gauze scarf {similar} / ann taylor signature sateen pants {similar} / dexter kylie wedges {similar}
thursday: j crew factory textured grid shirt {similar} / merona classic
ankle pants {exact} / mossimo ona flats {exact} / target round stone
necklace {similar} / world market headband {exact}
{my supervisor/coworker was off all this week, so i was not only doing my own work but also hers. as the overtime added up throughout the week and my brain power fizzled my outfits sadly took a turn for the worst. i'm just going to ignore friday's outfit!}
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